7 Signs That A Woman Is Using You

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you were constantly behind it, dedicating all the time in the world to it and behaving like a “bread of God“? What did you get in return? Countless psychological games, drama, and inconsistent and uneven emotional response?

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Interested Woman

While most women claim to want to be with a man who treats them well, is loving, and willing to compromise, there are selfish, opportunistic, and cruel women who take advantage of these innocent bastards, absorbing everything they have to offer, whether professionally, financially, socially, or lovingly.

Although women are wonderful and surprising, there is a negative side that some, I repeat, SOME, prefer to maximize and the sooner you realize this my friend, the better, since it will save you time, money and avoid a totally unnecessary emotional exhaustion that sometimes can even destroy you, in very extreme cases and that are not at all uncommon.

To put an end to this malevolent female conspiracy, we say to elaborate a small guide so that you do not fall or if you have already fallen, so that you are able to escape from the clutches of these parasitic women who only want to take advantage of you.

1. Cancel appointments with you.

On several occasions she tells you how interested she is in seeing you, however, when you call her to make an appointment, she cancels at the last minute or something always comes up out of nowhere to prevent you from seeing each other unless she needs something that you have or that you can provide. Chances are, that woman doesn’t enjoy your company and for that reason avoids hookups at all costs, but if she needs something from you, even if it’s a silly thing, if she really needs it, she’ll quickly find a way to reach you.

2. Doesn’t return calls.

If a woman rarely returns your calls within a reasonable amount of time, always has a busy schedule and only calls when she wants something from you or needs a favor, it should be clear that she can be with you, but you are not and will never be a priority in her life and when you least expect it she will kick you in the butt and send you flying, It can be at any time. When a more interesting guy comes along and makes you a proposal, goodbye.

In this type of situation the best thing you can do is to avoid getting emotionally involved, and since she is using you, then use her too, but if you are like most men who are looking for a serious woman to commit to :D, end it once and for all and don’t wait any longer for the inevitable, one day she will end up sending you to hell.

3. He only dates you as a last resort.

A woman who really likes and enjoys your company will organize her time to be with you. But if he only makes plans with you at the last minute, because nothing better came up or the plans with his friends didn’t work out, he doesn’t take you seriously at all and the worst, you are nothing more than a toy in his hands to be used when he is bored, you must understand that for a woman who treats you like this, You are not regarded as a man, but as a last resort, the last option and nothing more.

4. She’s only interested in what you have to offer.

In a healthy and normal relationship there is an alternation in the exchange of energy, emotional investment, and of course financial investment, however, there are many situations in which the woman sees the man only as a provider, a simple bridge that allows him to get to the tickets, the meals, the drinks or, even worse, the other way. She pays the rent for the apartment she used to be with other men.

Be honest and ask yourself the following questions: Do you always buy things for her without getting anything in return? Do you always pay when you go out together and often spend more than anticipated? Have you already borrowed money from you, but never got around to paying? Would she still be by your side if you stopped spending money on her? The answers to these questions can be surprising and scary, but they can set you free, so think about it and make a decision, choose to be happy.

5. He makes plans, but none of them include you.

If she only has short-term plans about the relationship, and never broached the subject of her future as a couple, then it’s clear that she doesn’t take you seriously, wants nothing to do with you, and maybe thinks she’d be better off without you.

6. He never introduces you to anyone.

She doesn’t allow you to participate in her life, she doesn’t introduce you to her friends and family, and the worst thing is when you’ve been together for a long time and her mother asks her who you are and she immediately replies that you’re just a friend. Bad sign, because when women really like a man one of the things she enjoys the most is to exhibit him with friends and present him to the family, if she does nothing but avoid relating to people important to her, you can be sure that she does not take you seriously, you know what to do.

7. He likes to show up with you in front of another guy, but when the subject isn’t around, he completely ignores you.

If she makes an effort to show off with you in front of another guy, but when that third person is out of sight she starts ignoring you, then it’s because she doesn’t want anything to do with you and more obvious than that impossible, you’re nothing more than a tool she blatantly uses to provoke jealousy.

It’s very easy to sense when you’re in this kind of situation, so I want you to be honest with yourself and answer the following question: When you’re together, does she give more attention to you or does she seem to be aware of who’s looking or not looking at her? The answer to this question can clarify a lot. Don’t fool yourself my friend, start seeing things as they really are.

I hope these tips are very useful and that they become real lessons so that you are never deceived by women who are not worth it. It’s easy to find yourself in those situations when you’re blindly in love.